Alex Fasolo battling mental demons.

[John Crow Batty 8,255]

See article. May or may not play against us on QB.

http://www.theage.com.au/afl/afl-news/collingwood-magpie-alex-fasolo-out-of-afl-with-depression-20170530-gwgn45.html

[beelzebub 22,225]

Dont wish the black dog on anyone.

Hope he gets the help required.

[Dwight Schrute 16,781]

All the best Alex! Wouldn't wish depression on my worst enemy! 

[Salems Lot 2,377]

Poor guy; get well soon Alex

[Mach5 4,482]

I deal with depression every now & then in my life, not necessarily more than a lot of people. I feel like it's quite a bit, but I don't really know. Maybe it's just normal.

I've suffered from it, badly in the past, but I've been pretty much free of it for years on end now & I feel lucky for that. My wife has suffered from it terribly and still does frequently, although it is better now that I have learned to help her manage it better (and completed a course on emotional intelligence as part of my CPD, which as surprisingly helpful despite seeming elementary at the time). 

For some reason I'm floored by Fasolo's revelation. I know it is foolish of me, but I really just didn't think he was the type. Seemed a happy, bouncy (even cocky) fella and I'm sad to hear he is doing it hard.

If anything, I'm thankful he is open about it and seeking help, and also for the timely reminder that I should never assume someone is safe from the black dog in spite of appearances.

(terribly self indulgent post, but I felt like sharing)

[DubDee 20,645]

I feel deeply for anyone with depression. Having the guts to admit you've got it is the first very tough step

all the best Alex

[chook fowler 18,243]

Good to see more players are acknowledging their problem and seeking help - a real cultural shift in the game and the community.

[Adzman 2,085]

Poor bloke. Can't imagine dealing with that while living in the spotlight. 

No escape.

Hope he can find his way through it.

[Winners at last 4,733]

Like everyone else, I wish him all the best and he's up and about very soon. Even if he's back for the QB match (subject to him not playing too well that day!!)

[TeamPlayedFine39 8,154]

33 minutes ago, chook fowler said:

Good to see more players are acknowledging their problem and seeking help - a real cultural shift in the game and the community.

This.

It would take so much strength and courage to acknowledge this and seek the help you need. Tragic that so many still suffer in silence.

[puntkick 325]

Good luck Alex but I don't ever recommend transferring to MFC or you'll know what " battling mental demons " really means !

[Engorged Onion 9,278]

I for one am glad that players are open to having the media (and thus the public) be aware of what they are experiencing. The more exposure, the less stigma. I for one remember Nathan Thompson talking about depression on The Footy Show (must be 10 years ago now) and tearing up - not for him, but for the acknowledgement that the more we speak, the more it creates change and a willingness to seek help...and not have to suck it up.

[Hellaintabadplacetobe 4,089]

 

It is a really sad thing to see, I feel for Faz. Outwardly he comes across as a confident young fella, but it would seem inwardly he is struggling and a lot of it has to do with the scrutiny we place on our players in this digital world.

It`s a timely reminder to all the keyboard warriors out there.  Jordan Lewis said that all the young players read all the forums and various social media platforms. “That has no doubt had an effect on players and their mental health.”

We all get upset when we lose a match or see a player stuff up, but some of the insults thrown around are downright disgraceful. They are human beings and many of them barely adults. 

Please give this some thought before you post nasty, unnecessary, negative comments towards the players. It just might be your comment that sends them into darkness.

[Sir Why You Little 34,493]

Tough gig playing for the Filth, moreso than other clubs. 

Get well Faz

control the Dog...

[Buzzy 931]

A mate of mine at the club said Fasolo is struggling to deal with his girlfriend breaking up with him recently...but that situation was somewhat self-inflicted.

[Chook 14,502]

5 minutes ago, Buzzy said:

A mate of mine at the club said Fasolo is struggling to deal with his girlfriend breaking up with him recently...but that situation was somewhat self-inflicted.

“Depression."

[ThreeOneSix 953]

On Tuesday, May 30, 2017 at 9:05 PM, Mach5 said:

I deal with depression every now & then in my life, not necessarily more than a lot of people. I feel like it's quite a bit, but I don't really know. Maybe it's just normal.

I've suffered from it, badly in the past, but I've been pretty much free of it for years on end now & I feel lucky for that. My wife has suffered from it terribly and still does frequently, although it is better now that I have learned to help her manage it better (and completed a course on emotional intelligence as part of my CPD, which as surprisingly helpful despite seeming elementary at the time). 

For some reason I'm floored by Fasolo's revelation. I know it is foolish of me, but I really just didn't think he was the type. Seemed a happy, bouncy (even cocky) fella and I'm sad to hear he is doing it hard.

If anything, I'm thankful he is open about it and seeking help, and also for the timely reminder that I should never assume someone is safe from the black dog in spite of appearances.

(terribly self indulgent post, but I felt like sharing)

I think he is exactly the type. If there even is a type. I have friends like that.

[Rolling Stone 107]

Feel for the bloke as he's been a good solid player for some time. 

Pies are also missing two other key players in Ben Reid and Travis Varcoe who are both out until the Pies have their bye after the QB game.

[Pates 9,537]

Best of luck to him and well done to him on acknowledging he needed time out. I've never had any personal connection to depression but I feel that accepting you need to look after yourself must be a difficult decision. 

[davo 209]

Jordan Lewis was saying on AFL360 how most players read everything written about them on social media etc, if that's the case Jack Watts must be strong of character because if anyone has copped it more than anyone else has, he has, on this site and Big Footy some 'supporters' have been merciless. Heard Wayne Schwass say he's careful with what he says about players because you just don't know what they're going through personally. Makes you think, especially with some of the filth you read on some sites, this one included.

Edited May 31, 2017 by davo

[TGR 1,367]

Mark Robinson is helping Fasolo out apparently.

 

[hemingway 7,589]

20 hours ago, Hell Bent said:

 

It is a really sad thing to see, I feel for Faz. Outwardly he comes across as a confident young fella, but it would seem inwardly he is struggling and a lot of it has to do with the scrutiny we place on our players in this digital world.

It`s a timely reminder to all the keyboard warriors out there.  Jordan Lewis said that all the young players read all the forums and various social media platforms. “That has no doubt had an effect on players and their mental health.”

We all get upset when we lose a match or see a player stuff up, but some of the insults thrown around are downright disgraceful. They are human beings and many of them barely adults. 

Please give this some thought before you post nasty, unnecessary, negative comments towards the players. It just might be your comment that sends them into darkness.

Great post Hell Bent.

We see kids and so many young folk that are deeply affected by social media and 24 hour commentary from people who don't know the person or don't care how a careless or critical comment can impact them. 

This can lead to anxiety, and in the case of a sportsperson, performance anxiety and depression.  This may not be Fasolo's situation but it is a common problem across society.

I know from first hand experience that anxiety and depression go hand in hand and is a dangerous place to be in. 

[DubDee 20,645]

36 minutes ago, TGR said:

Mark Robinson is helping Fasolo out apparently.

 

What a horrible comment he made. And his apology was almost worse. 

If you have no idea about a subject either ask some questions or STFU. 

[Bluey's Dad 3,419]

Interesting on the AFL website for team announcements:

 

"Alex Fasolo (Unavailable)"

 

I would have thought "illness" would be more appropriate.

Not a massive issue, but I reckon "unavailable" isn't the right word.

[Sir Why You Little 34,493]

3 hours ago, DubDee said:

What a horrible comment he made. And his apology was almost worse. 

If you have no idea about a subject either ask some questions or STFU. 

Mark Robinson should just retire from Public Life. 

He is worse than bad. Offensive twit

hopefully SEN will have the Balls to get him off air.