Jump to content

Vale Ronald Dale Barassi - Rest in Peace


Dannyz

Recommended Posts

R.I.P to a wonderful man.

His willingness to engage with the fans, and the time he gave our club will be greatly missed.

I was extremly luck in my life to have a couple of interactions with the great man,  and his patience for a rabid melbourne supporter was wonderful...

He bought a few footy books from my dads bookshop, (another rabid supporter) and we were both there to chew his ear off and shake his hand.

also had the privilege of meeting him at he Melbourne supporters forum thing we did under Jim Stynes..., we were put on the same little group to come up with ideas,  and he nominated me leader and even called me Captain...  as an 19 year old it was the most wonderful thing in the world!!!!!!..

Cheers! Captain 😢🍺🍺♥️♥️♥️

 

 

 

Edited by red and blue forever
  • Like 6
  • Thanks 1
  • Love 5
Link to comment
Share on other sites

2 hours ago, Whispering_Jack said:

For many of my generation who grew up in our golden era in the 50s and early 60s, he was our first true hero.

Rest in peace, dear Ronald Dale Barassi.

At a club function on the occasion of Ron’s 80th birthday, one of the tributes was from tenor David Hobson who sang “You Raise Me Up” as requested by the guest of honour. For those of us who were blessed to grow up following the Demons during the time when RDB ruled as Mr Football, this song will always resonate with us … we were always strong when we were on his shoulders.

 

That’s just beautiful WJ.

  • Like 7
Link to comment
Share on other sites

2 hours ago, chook fowler said:

Not a great weekend for the Club. So good to see him return to the fold in recent years and that he got to enjoy our 2021 premiership. 

His return is not so recent. I was working part time hours in Acland Street Cellars in early 2006. In walks the mighty Mister Barassi. He brings a bottiglie to the counter, I confess my allegiance, my adoration of the way he played, the number of times I had the privilege to watch him play, asked how he fancied our chances in 2006 - the same question I had asked David Neitz the week before -  and as he left the shop, he turned to me and smiled and yelled, Go Dees.

Edited by Monbon
  • Like 5
  • Thanks 1
  • Love 4
Link to comment
Share on other sites


RIP RDB. I like to think he is upstairs with my dad and grandpa, chewing the fat and talking football with two of his greatest fans. 
I never met you but grew up listening to stories about you from my Demon mad family.

Condolences to his family, friends and the MFC. We have lost a great man ❤️💙 

  • Like 4
  • Thanks 1
  • Love 6
  • Sad 1
Link to comment
Share on other sites

1 hour ago, jane02 said:

RIP RDB. I like to think he is upstairs with my dad and grandpa, chewing the fat and talking football with two of his greatest fans. 
I never met you but grew up listening to stories about you from my Demon mad family.

Condolences to his family, friends and the MFC. We have lost a great man ❤️💙 

With his Dad, too, Jane. Would have been another greatest, and very proud, fan. Their story is one of my earliest experiences of unfair human loss.

  • Like 4
  • Love 2
Link to comment
Share on other sites

In so many ways RDB was a legend - from his playing days to an amazing coaching record. I'm sure we'll hear all about it over the next week or so. But here's my take on  RDB memories (I'm born 1968 so never saw him play).

1/ The passion. Whether it was finger pointing or screaming down a phone - contemporary coaches like Clarkson or Scott have nothing on RDB. At his peak as a coach he was brutal. 

2/ The fashion. Often a suit with no tie but always full of colour. Check out the photos from North's win in 1975 and try tell me the man had no class. 

3/ The ration (OK, I only wrote that cos it rhymes -  I meant 'innovation'). It's a well-known trope that RDB 'introduced handball to the game at half time of the 1970 GF' but regardless he was perfectionist who had an understanding of the 'one-percenter' long before it was a statistic. Robbie Flower wrote in his autobiography about how RDB had made all the players think about the little things. eg how was your bootlace tied? (a badly tied bootlace could cause a kick to go awry etc). 

RIPRDB

  • Like 3
  • Thanks 1
Link to comment
Share on other sites

Such sad, devastating news. As a teenager I grew up watching the great Ron Barassi marvelling at his fierce, never say die attitude and skills. What a legend . He was the prime reason why I followed the mighty Demons. The greatest Melbourne player to have pulled a Melbourne jumper and as an old man, I have seen many great players but not quite up the standard of this mighty man. He could fly in the packs with the big boys and moments later he was grappling on the ground with the smaller faster players.Tackling? Those long arms would lock in an opponent and stop them in their tracks.You knew when you were gone with a Barassi tackle. So hard to believe that his big heart lies still. RIP dear Ron and my deepest symphony goes out to his immediate family and friends.Thank you RDB for the joy you put into my life.

 

  • Like 6
  • Love 4
Link to comment
Share on other sites


He was a friend of our family. Too young to see him play, but met him many times over the years. Always humble and nice, but no time for fools. I would have liked him a lot without knowing his background.

I've mentioned here before that Hassa Mann is my uncle, so talking to football royalty was pretty 'meh' growing up (don't all kids have champion footballers in their family?), but no matter how many times I talked to Ron I was always a bit (lot) in awe of him. The man had a list of honours and a gravitas about him that made Uncle Hass seem just another bloke that played football.

His influence on the MFC, and every other club he touched, plus the game as a whole cannot ever be calculated.

Love and thoughts to RDB's family and friends.

"Don't cry because it is over. Smile because it happened"

  • Like 5
  • Love 9
  • Sad 1
Link to comment
Share on other sites

RIP, Ronald Dale Barassi, my handle here's inspiration and Mum's favourite player ever.  31 has woven through my family's life since the 50s.  My sister shouting "Barassi" on the Hume highway at irregular intervals way back when.  Took my parents a while to realise she was seeing the 31 sign on the side of the road.  The joy when he returned to the club in the 80s (and the despair of only winning one game).  I was a completely Melbourne mad teenager then.

Always our hero, Ron, and a legend of the game.  Thank you for all you gave to us, the club and footy in general.

  • Like 1
  • Love 5
Link to comment
Share on other sites

10 hours ago, red and blue forever said:

R.I.P to a wonderful man.

His willingness to engage with the fans, and the time he gave our club will be greatly missed.

I was extremly luck in my life to have a couple of interactions with the great man,  and his patience for a rabid melbourne supporter was wonderful...

He bought a few footy books from my dads bookshop, (another rabid supporter) and we were both there to chew his ear off and shake his hand.

also had the privilege of meeting him at he Melbourne supporters forum thing we did under Jim Stynes..., we were put on the same little group to come up with ideas,  and he nominated me leader and even called me Captain...  as an 19 year old it was the most wonderful thing in the world!!!!!!..

Cheers! Captain 😢🍺🍺♥️♥️♥️

 

 

 

I remember that day and the multiple forums. I was there and RDB was moderator I could barely talk when he asked a question. He was good enough to sign one of the books on sale of the then "History of Melbourne" that day will forever stay in my memory 

  • Like 3
  • Thanks 1
Link to comment
Share on other sites

As a very young youngster I remember him as a very earnest presenter of a kids' show on (black and white) TV, and the Barassi plastic football boots that were my first ever, even though they were hand me downs. He was charismatic, a presence, no wonder I went for the dees and no wonder I was devastated when he went to Carlton. My three brothers followed him and dumped the MFC. I stuck.

  • Like 5
Link to comment
Share on other sites

I remember the talk around the kitchen table when he left for Carlton.  And distance relatives were ringing up at odd hours to discuss what had happened.

Whilst always a Dees supporter I followed his success at Carlton and at North with pleasure, especially when they beat Collingwood; and they were great football stories.

I remember his absolute indignation when asked what jumper he should be wearing for his statue; Dees of course.

Rest in peace.

  • Like 1
  • Thanks 2
Link to comment
Share on other sites

It was a warm evening ,the 28th Dec 1964. Dusk had come and gone as passengers disembarked the FairSea at Port Melb.. Many families made their way to the special liveried Dog box Swing Door Train that awaited us 10 pounders. We were picked up by distant rellos.

This 5 year old wee lad had no idea that evening about Footy, who Melbourne were or who "Barassi" was.

That was all to change the first day of school the following year. I won't bore you with the full story of that as has been told a few times. Suffice I became a Dee and started my footy journey in that schoolyard.

My first bit of kit was a Melbourne jumper... my mum knitted that. That was done in those days. I needed boots. A rather.."quirky" Sports/ Hardware ( opposite Malvern station) was visited. I became the proud recipient of a pair of "Ron Barassi" leather boots .. not the 'plastic things'... yes they did exist. These were Black leather with wooden stops. A far cry from the soft slippers worn today.

I floated on air and beamed widely.. I had Barassi Boots... what could be better.

Later , much later,indeed this century,  i was asked to attend and participate in a number of MFC think tanks. We were divided into small groups...each with a mentor/ facilitator.  I drew the man himself. They were interesting times and the great Barrasi  regaled his times at the club and offered his understanding of the malaise that then beleaguered our club. They were interesting sessions. He genuinely seemed to take on board many of our thoughts. Subsequently i believe some fruit was borne of those talks but for me the greatest takeaway was to get an insight, if brief,  as to what made him tick.

Barassi, for mine, shares a distinct quality with that which adorns our Coat of Arms. Neither a Roo nor an Emu can take a backward step. Ron didn't either. He struck me as not only someone who attacked things with passion and gusto but not affraid to make mistakes.  Life to lived... don't go wondering.

Ron, I only got to meet and speak with you but a number of times but always felt I came away better for them.

Im not convinced you'll  "rest" wher'ere you are as I'm sure you'd much rather get a game happening. And I'm absolutely positive you'd be wearing a Red and Blue guernsey...  31 on the back.

You're a Champion. All Demons should play like you, fearless and determined. 

Ronald Dale Barassi.   Legend RIP

 

Edited by beelzebub
  • Like 7
  • Love 7
Link to comment
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.

Guest
Unfortunately, your content contains terms that we do not allow. Please edit your content to remove the highlighted words below.
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.
  • Demonland Forums  

  • Match Previews, Reports & Articles  

    HEAVEN OR HELL by The Oracle

    Clashes between Melbourne and St Kilda are often described as battles between the forces of heaven and hell. However, based on recent performances, it’s hard to get excited about the forthcoming match between these two sides. It would be fair to say that, at the moment, both of these teams are in the doldrums. The Demons have become the competition’s slow starters while the Saints are not only slow to begin, they’re not doing much of a job finishing off their games either. About the only th

    Demonland
    Demonland |
    Melbourne Demons

    THE BLOW by Whispering Jack

    Narrm’s finals prospects took a crushing blow after the team’s insipid performance at Optus Stadium against a confident Waaljit Marawar in the first of its Doug Nicholls Round outings for 2024.  I use the description “crushing blow” advisedly because, although the season is not yet at it’s halfway mark, the Demons have now failed abysmally in two of their games against teams currently occupying bottom eight places on the ladder.  The manner in which these losing games were played out w

    Demonland
    Demonland |
    Match Reports 6

    HALF FULL by KC from Casey

    It was a case of the Casey Demons going into a game with a glass half full in their match up against the Brisbane Lions at Casey Fields on Saturday. As the list of injured and unavailable AFL and VFL listed players continues to grow and with Melbourne taking all three emergencies to Perth for the weekend on a “just in case” basis, its little brother was always destined to struggle. Casey was left with only eight AFL listed players from who to select their team but only two - an out-of-form

    Demonland
    Demonland |
    Casey Articles

    PREGAME: Rd 11 vs St. Kilda

    The Demons return to the MCG to take on the Saints in Round 11 on the back of two straight losses in a row. With Jake Lever out with concussion who comes in and who goes out?

    Demonland
    Demonland |
    Melbourne Demons 261

    PODCAST: Rd 10 vs West Coast

    The Demonland Podcast will air LIVE on Monday, 20th May @ 8:30pm. Join George, Binman & I as we dissect the Demons disaapoiting performance against the Eagles at Optus Stadium in Round 10. You questions and comments are a huge part of our podcast so please post anything you want to ask or say below and we'll give you a shout out on the show. If you would like to leave us a voicemail please call 03 9016 3666 and don't worry no body answers so you don't have to talk to a human.

    Demonland
    Demonland |
    Melbourne Demons 43

    VOTES: Rd 10 vs West Coast

    Last week Captain Max Gawn consolidated his lead over reigning champion Christian Petracca in the Demonland Player of the Year Award. Steven May, Alex Neal-Bullen & Jake Lever make up the Top 5. Your votes for the loss against the Blues. 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.

    Demonland
    Demonland |
    Melbourne Demons 37

    POSTGAME: Rd 10 vs West Coast

    Many warned that this was a danger game and the Demons were totally outclassed all game by a young Eagles team at Optus Stadium in Perth as they were defeated by 35 points.

    Demonland
    Demonland |
    Melbourne Demons 445

    GAMEDAY: Rd 10 vs West Coast

    It's Game Day and the Demons have returned to the site of their drought breaking Premiership to take on the West Coast Eagles in what could very well be a danger game for Narrm at Optus Stadium. A win and a percentage boost will keep the Dees in top four contention whilst a loss will cast doubt on the Dees flag credentials and bring them back to the pack fighting for a spot in the 8 as we fast approach the halfway point of the season.

    Demonland
    Demonland |
    Melbourne Demons 884

    WARNING by William from Waalitj

    As a long term resident of Waalitj Marawar, I am moved to warn my fellow Narrm fans that a  danger game awaits. The locals are no longer the easybeats who stumbled, fumbled and bumbled their way to the good fortune of gathering the number one draft pick and a generational player in Harley Reid last year. They are definitely better than they were then.   Young Harley has already proven his worth with some stellar performances for a first year kid playing among men. He’s taken hangers, k

    Demonland
    Demonland |
    Match Previews 22
  • Tell a friend

    Love Demonland? Tell a friend!

×
×
  • Create New...