The last sentence suggests that someone/s have to make this crucial decision.
Who makes this decision? On what considerations/measures is it made?
Its it art or science?
Yeah it's certainly complex dees ... and maybe different strokes for different blokes.
However, I've worked with counsellors etc .. in professional situations and wouldn't give any of them an ounce of credibility.
Maybe there's some useful ones out there - but I never encountered them
This mental health stuff is really interesting ... but I'm old school and don't get it.
I would never seek "help' or seek assistance ..... it's difficult to change ingrained beliefs.