Letter to MFC - In honour of my late father!

[Star of the 80s 154]

Dear Melbourne Football Club, 

 

Thanks for your email. I will always support this club through the good and bad times! My late father, Kevin Raymond Hardeman who passed away on 3rd December 2018 and was a financial paid up member of the MFC since 1972 (except 1979!) and we, as a family attended every MFC game up until 1987. In 1973, I remember sitting in the Northern Stand with my Grandmother (Gary Hardeman’s Aunty), my Dad, Mother, Brother and Sister (my youngest brother wasn’t born at the time) with Robert Flower’s parents and talking to them while watching Robbie play his first game for the MFC!

 

I was still taking my Dad to the footy in 2018 and sitting in the top deck of the Southern Stand in the AFL members...sometimes on our own!! My Dad saw his last MFC game and win against the Bulldogs at Etihad Stadium! It was a fitting last game for Dad (who had Dementia and was living in a nursing home at the time!). My Dad had grown up a Footscray supporter and saw many of Melbourne’s premierships in the 1950’s. My father was a good footballer in his own right and played U18s for Yarraville Football Club and told me he had played football on the MCG and his opponent that day was EJ Whitten who was playing for Braybrook. It was the season before EJ started playing for Footscray. Dad also coached North Footscray Football Club and was a life member of the Umpires Association in the Footscray District League (FDL) which is now defunct.

 

My Dad was the strongest, nicest and honest man I ever knew. He was and is still a legend!! Our greatest MFC moment was at Whitten Oval in the last game of 1987 when we beat Footscray to make the finals for the first time since 1964! I remember hugging my Dad as the final siren rang and dancing on the terraces...what a game! What a team! What a season! We where also there at the Preliminary final at Waverley and watched as the Hawks broke our hearts!! We went to our Grand Final losses in 1988 and 2000 (another great year...loved ‘The Wiz’!!).

 

My poor Dad was too ill to go the finals in 2018 but my brother, my niece and myself where at the MCG to see us beat the Cats and the Hawks (I was responsible for starting the Melbourne, Melbourne, Melbourne chant after the game!). I flew to Perth for the 2018 Prem final and sat behind Daniel Cross (Daniel lived with my Dad’s brother Peter Hardeman and my Aunty when Daniel first started playing at the Bulldogs) and the club doctor on the plane over...the loss still hurts as does the 186 point loss at Geelong (Dad, my son and I sat though the reserves as they got beaten by 30 goals and then the seniors by 186 points...I am still recovering from that defeat!!)

 

My Dad also knew Dudley...and I remember Dudley selling peanuts at the footy at the G in the 1970s and 1980s...

 

Anyway... I love this club with all of my heart and soul! Stay strong and take care.

 

Go Dees!!!

[old dee 23,880]

I have tears right now star of the 80's. 

[Demonstone 23,014]

You should let Gus Brayshaw peel your onions, old dee.  ?

[Mazer Rackham 14,971]

Good on you, Star. I hope everyone pulls in this kind of spirit when the time comes later this year to really get behind the Mighty Demons.

 

Sounds like the old man lived a full and dignified life. Good on him too. That's the way to do it.

[deebug 1,754]

Loved it, well said?

[nosoupforme 3,085]

You have touched my heart star of the 80s You will always remember the time with your Dad.Thanks for letting us read your letter. 

[Born to Run 204]

Awesome to be able to pen such a reflection. Thank you for sharing with us. 

[Dame Gaga 2,453]

Beautiful. Just beautiful.

[faultydet 7,623]

I remember my Dad smacking me over the ear after I sat on his pie during the finals loss to the Eagles at Waverley Park.