Not sure where I said it is uncommon or unique to Melbourne....
I agree with your statement others are the same. Of course this is symptomatic of any team that is performing poorly and disfunctional.
I propose that for once we are not like every other team of supporters because of the way we look after each other when things aren't great. Let's face it the problem with Melbourne is as much to do with the fractures within the club and we see similar cultural symptoms play out here. What if we were different and recognised for the positives about the supporter base?
Everyone is entitled to their opinion no doubt, but it is of course how it is expressed and conveyed that can make all the difference.
I would suggest as supporters we must live and breathe for the club and each other rather than being the same as 'the rest'.